{"id":81669,"date":"2023-04-24T04:00:07","date_gmt":"2023-04-24T08:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/?p=81669"},"modified":"2023-04-23T17:19:20","modified_gmt":"2023-04-23T21:19:20","slug":"even-fighter-pilots-and-gunners-have-love-lives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/2023\/04\/24\/even-fighter-pilots-and-gunners-have-love-lives\/","title":{"rendered":"Even fighter pilots and gunners have love lives"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In <em>The Critic<\/em>, <a href=\"https:\/\/thecritic.co.uk\/killing-and-kissing\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">John Sturgis<\/a> reviews a new book by Luke Turner titled <em>Men at War: Loving, Lusting, Fighting, Remembering 1939-1945<\/em>, which considers the myths and reality of wartime relationships during the Second World War:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Men-at-War-by-Luke-Turner-cover.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:right; padding: 0px 0px 10px 25px\" src=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Men-at-War-by-Luke-Turner-cover-395x600.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"395\" height=\"600\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-81670\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Men-at-War-by-Luke-Turner-cover-395x600.jpg 395w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Men-at-War-by-Luke-Turner-cover-421x640.jpg 421w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Men-at-War-by-Luke-Turner-cover-99x150.jpg 99w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Men-at-War-by-Luke-Turner-cover.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 395px) 100vw, 395px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Spitfire pilot Ian Gleed shot down five enemy aircraft in just a week in May 1940 \u2014 the fastest time in which this had ever been done, making him an official &#8220;ace&#8221; who would be quickly promoted to Wing Commander. <\/p>\n<p>Gleed had become a poster boy for &#8220;the few&#8221;, the hero pilots of the Battle of Britain to whom so many would owe so much. He lived up to the popular image with his talk of &#8220;a bloody good show&#8221; and shooting down &#8220;damned Huns&#8221;, after which he&#8217;d sink a few warm beers and spend some &#8220;wizard&#8221; free time recuperating with his girlfriend Pam, whom he &#8220;loved now more than ever&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Gleed&#8217;s luck finally ran out over Tunisia in April 1943 when his plane was hit by a German fighter and crashed into dunes. Gleed was killed. He was just 26.<\/p>\n<p>It would only emerge decades later that much of the popular image he had cultivated simply wasn&#8217;t true. Gleed was gay. Pam was an imaginary character he had invented as a cover to keep his double life as a sexually active homosexual firmly secret. <\/p>\n<p>Gleed&#8217;s story is one of many similar vignettes in this alternative history of the Second World War. Its author Luke Turner&#8217;s previous book was a memoir about his own grappling with issues around his identity as a bisexual. Here he takes up the question of how this would have played out for him and other sexual non-conformists in 1939\u201345.<\/p>\n<p>Turner grew up obsessed with the war \u2014 everything from Airfix kits and <em>Dad&#8217;s Army<\/em> to Stalingrad and the Berlin bunker \u2014 and here he examines what it was to live through that period as a sexually active person of whatever hue. It proves a particularly rich subject matter as sex seems to have been everywhere in war time: everyone was sleeping with everyone else, apparently. It&#8217;s a perennial truth that you or I might be hit by a bus tomorrow \u2014 but make that bus a bomb, and suddenly this seems to create a sense of urgency which frequently manifests itself sexually, lending daily life what Turner calls &#8220;an aphrodisiac quality&#8221;. As Quentin Crisp put it when describing the shenanigans in blacked-out, Blitz London: &#8220;As soon as the bombs started to fall, the city became like a paved double bed.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Whilst war may see an explosion of sex of all kinds, the establishment was not always comfortable with this. A Home Office report on public behaviour in London during the Blitz noted, &#8220;In several districts cases of blatant immorality in shelters are reported; this upsets other occupants of the shelters.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>One contemporary account suggests, &#8220;In wartime a uniform, whether of the Army, Navy or Air Force, to the average girl ranks as a fetish.&#8221; This had consequences in the field: Dear John letters from home could be a real problem in this regard. As an Army report in 1942 put it, morale is often damaged by &#8220;the suspicion, very frequently justified, of fickleness on behalf of wives and girls&#8221;. <\/p>\n<p>Amongst all this sex was, of course, sex with Americans. Turner cites George Formby who captured this mood in the song &#8220;Our Fanny&#8217;s Gone All Yankee&#8221;: &#8220;She don&#8217;t wait for the dark when she wants to have a lark\/In a bus or train she does her hanky panky.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Then in a dark reversal of this two-nations-colliding-sexually motif, we get the horror of the Red Army&#8217;s organised rape of as many as 1.4 milllion German women during the Russian advance on Berlin, whose residents would later refer to the city&#8217;s grandiose monument to Soviet war dead as &#8220;the tomb of the unknown rapist&#8221;.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In The Critic, John Sturgis reviews a new book by Luke Turner titled Men at War: Loving, Lusting, Fighting, Remembering 1939-1945, which considers the myths and reality of wartime relationships during the Second World War: Spitfire pilot Ian Gleed shot down five enemy aircraft in just a week in May 1940 \u2014 the fastest time [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":35193,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[32,4,1118,7,5,1119,230],"tags":[145,1296,878,196,350,269,255,433,1447],"class_list":["post-81669","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-books","category-britain","category-germany","category-history","category-military","category-russia","category-ww2","tag-airforce","tag-battleofbritain","tag-berlin","tag-lgbt","tag-london","tag-propaganda","tag-sexuality","tag-sovietunion","tag-strategicbombing"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/favicon.png","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2hpV6-lff","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81669","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81669"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81669\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":81671,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81669\/revisions\/81671"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35193"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81669"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81669"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81669"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}