{"id":79023,"date":"2022-12-31T03:00:10","date_gmt":"2022-12-31T08:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/?p=79023"},"modified":"2022-12-30T21:51:31","modified_gmt":"2022-12-31T02:51:31","slug":"if-hell-is-other-people-then-the-deepest-level-of-hell-must-be-other-high-school-students","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/2022\/12\/31\/if-hell-is-other-people-then-the-deepest-level-of-hell-must-be-other-high-school-students\/","title":{"rendered":"If Hell is “other people”, then the deepest level of Hell must be “other high school students”"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tom Knighton<\/a> on a recent post from FEE about the awfulness of the school experience for a lot of students:<\/p>\n

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“Leaside High School entrance Toronto Ontario Canada” by ammiiirrrr<\/a> is licensed under CC BY-NC-SA 2.0 <\/a>.<\/p><\/div>\n

I was never a big fan of school. While I always thought education was important, I never liked school itself.<\/p>\n

Part of that was because I was the kid most likely to get picked on, but even when that wasn\u2019t happening, I still didn’t like it. Learning boring stuff while not getting to delve deeper into interesting topics just made it a chore to be endured.<\/p>\n

Couple with the fact that cruelty is such a part of the “educational experience”, it’s no wonder that I didn’t like it.<\/p>\n

Hell, even when everyone was being chill, the fact that I didn’t fit in did a number on me, including a time when I genuinely wanted to end my own life. I don’t talk about that kind of thing much, but it was a stark reality of that time.<\/p>\n

[…]<\/p>\n

Granted, I always chalked my difficulties at the time \u2014 and I’m much better now, I should note \u2014 with a number of things besides the structure of school itself. Mostly the fact that it was a small school, I was the weird kid, and while I had friends, I never felt like I really fit in.<\/p>\n

Yet I can’t rule out that the structured nature of education at the time contributed greatly to the problem.<\/p>\n

As noted in the original piece, the patterns for suicidal behavior in teens don’t match up with adults. That tells us that there’s something at play other than just the weather, the temperature, or whatever.<\/p>\n

Regardless, it raises serious questions about our schools as an environment. Teachers and administrators would tell you that they strive to create a nurturing environment for students of all ages. I’m pretty sure most of them mean it, too.<\/p>\n

Yet these studies suggest that they’re failing. Miserably.<\/p>\n

But let’s not ignore the possibility that much of this may well be because, frankly, kids can be little sociopaths. They’re mean. They’re cruel. Someone will seek out those they perceive as weak and victimize them while others get to enjoy the show, even while being glad they’re not the target.<\/p>\n

Then there’s the fact that it’s impossible to hide from any deficiencies you might have, including social deficiencies just as good fortune with finding romantic partners of your preferred sex and that’s going to play a role as well.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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