{"id":74728,"date":"2022-07-02T03:00:26","date_gmt":"2022-07-02T07:00:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/?p=74728"},"modified":"2022-07-01T15:51:14","modified_gmt":"2022-07-01T19:51:14","slug":"the-preferred-pronoun-problem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/2022\/07\/02\/the-preferred-pronoun-problem\/","title":{"rendered":"The &#8220;preferred pronoun&#8221; problem"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/jimtreacher.substack.com\/p\/why-should-i-use-ezra-millers-preferred\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Jim Treacher<\/a> is having pronoun problems &#8230; not choosing the ones he wants to use or for others to use for him, but the whole &#8220;preferred pronoun&#8221; imposition on the rest of society to learn, remember, and use properly the bespoke pronoun choices for all the extra, extra-special snowflakes:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Remember when you could just use the pronouns that self-evidently described a person? If you were talking about a fella, you&#8217;d say stuff like, &#8220;<em>He<\/em> did this&#8221; and &#8220;Here&#8217;s what I said to <em>him<\/em>.&#8221; Or if you were talking about a lady, you&#8217;d say things like, &#8220;The 19th Amendment says she can vote now, good for <em>her<\/em>.&#8221; It was a simpler time.<\/p>\n<p>Now pronouns are a frickin&#8217; minefield. You put one little tippy-toe on the wrong pronoun and &#8230; <strong>BOOM!!<\/strong> A heedless &#8220;misgendering&#8221; can get you in big trouble. You can get banned from the internet and\/or lose your job. For some reason, you&#8217;re expected to enable the delusions of any person with trendy mental health issues. It&#8217;s not enough for a trans person to call him-, her-, or themselves whatever he, she, or they want. The rest of us are all obligated to go along.<\/p>\n<p>Even if he\u2019s a scumbag criminal like Ezra Miller.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Variety\/status\/1542582728628916224\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screenshot-2022-07-02-at-15-42-26-Why-Should-I-Use-Ezra-Millers-Preferred-Pronouns.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"562\" height=\"677\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-74729\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screenshot-2022-07-02-at-15-42-26-Why-Should-I-Use-Ezra-Millers-Preferred-Pronouns.png 562w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screenshot-2022-07-02-at-15-42-26-Why-Should-I-Use-Ezra-Millers-Preferred-Pronouns-480x578.png 480w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screenshot-2022-07-02-at-15-42-26-Why-Should-I-Use-Ezra-Millers-Preferred-Pronouns-531x640.png 531w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screenshot-2022-07-02-at-15-42-26-Why-Should-I-Use-Ezra-Millers-Preferred-Pronouns-125x150.png 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 562px) 100vw, 562px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>And what&#8217;s even worse, this bizarre phenomenon renders news stories about &#8220;nonbinary&#8221; people almost indecipherable. Just look at this latest story about the ex-<em>Flash<\/em> actor going around the world being a violent lunatic:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<p><em>The actor \u2014 best known for playing the DC superhero the Flash in several films for Warner Bros. \u2014 was set to start filming the studio&#8217;s latest entry in the &#8220;Harry Potter&#8221; franchise, <strong>Fantastic Beasts: The Secrets of Dumbledore<\/strong>, in London when the shoot was halted on March 15, 2020, due to COVID. In the weeks after, Miller, who identifies as nonbinary and uses &#8220;they\/them&#8221; pronouns, became a regular at bars in Iceland&#8217;s capital, Reykjav\u00edk, where locals came to know and even befriend them. Many recognized Miller from their earliest breakout movies, 2012&#8217;s <strong>The Perks of Being a Wallflower<\/strong> and 2011&#8217;s <strong>We Need to Talk About Kevin<\/strong>, where they played a troubled teen who brought a bow and arrow to school and murdered his classmates.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/ul>\n<p>It&#8217;s a grammatical nightmare. &#8220;Many recognized Miller from <em>their<\/em> earliest breakout movies.&#8221; Oh, so those Icelanders worked with Miller on those movies? No, you see, &#8220;their&#8221; is supposed to refer to <em>him<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>And this part is just madness: &#8220;<em>They<\/em> played a troubled teen who brought a bow and arrow to school and murdered <em>his<\/em> classmates.&#8221; So it&#8217;s not &#8220;<em>They<\/em> murdered <em>their<\/em> classmates,&#8221; because the character he was playing wasn&#8217;t nonbinary? What is this gibberish?<\/p>\n<p>Tom Hanks recently said he regrets playing a gay man in <em>Philadelphia<\/em> because he&#8217;s not gay. I always thought that was just called &#8220;acting&#8221;, but what do I know. If that&#8217;s the case, though, why should a nonbinary person be allowed to play a normal person?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jim Treacher is having pronoun problems &#8230; not choosing the ones he wants to use or for others to use for him, but the whole &#8220;preferred pronoun&#8221; imposition on the rest of society to learn, remember, and use properly the bespoke pronoun choices for all the extra, extra-special snowflakes: Remember when you could just use [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":35193,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[28,53,13],"tags":[254,400,196,122,238,351],"class_list":["post-74728","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-media","category-politics","category-usa","tag-gender","tag-language","tag-lgbt","tag-movies","tag-offensensitivity","tag-politicalcorrectness"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/favicon.png","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2hpV6-jri","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74728","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=74728"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74728\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":74730,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74728\/revisions\/74730"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35193"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=74728"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=74728"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=74728"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}