{"id":71171,"date":"2022-04-15T01:00:25","date_gmt":"2022-04-15T05:00:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/?p=71171"},"modified":"2022-04-14T08:52:57","modified_gmt":"2022-04-14T12:52:57","slug":"qotd-men-without-hobbies-shouldnt-ever-retire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/2022\/04\/15\/qotd-men-without-hobbies-shouldnt-ever-retire\/","title":{"rendered":"QotD: Men without hobbies shouldn’t ever<\/em> retire"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>I took an older guy somewhere during my early-morning Uber shift, and we got to chatting about retirement. He was in his early sixties and was thinking about retirement in the next couple of years or so \u2014 he’d reached all the retirement “qualifications” in terms of his age, length of service, and so on \u2014 and when I asked him what he was going to do after retirement, he said quite simply, “I don’t know.” He had no outside interests other than his work, he said, and had no hobbies or anything to keep him occupied when he would quit working.<\/p>\n

This set off all sorts of alarm bells in my head, because I’d confronted the very same thoughts when I planned on retiring back in 2016 on reaching age 62 (which seems to be the “killer” age discovered by the researchers).<\/p>\n

Worse than that, I either know men personally or have heard of many instances of men who have died soon \u2014 very soon \u2014 after retiring early. (When men retire at a later age, they paradoxically seem to live longer, as the study shows.) Sometimes, men die within six months of getting their gold watch, after many decades of working with little or even no time off for illness. Where I differ from the study is that I think I know the real reason why this happens.<\/p>\n

We’re working dogs.<\/p>\n

As long as men have work to do, we do fine. We have a purpose in life, we get up in the mornings with a day’s work ahead of ourselves, and this gives us a reason to live. It’s all tied up, I believe, in our inherent nature as providers and all that goes with it. When that activity stops earlier than expected \u2014 at 62, most of us have at least fifteen or even twenty more years to live \u2014 subconsciously we still feel that we are capable of working, providing and in short contributing to ourselves and others.<\/p>\n

But when that ends, it’s as though a switch is turned off somewhere and our brains simply say, “Oh well, that’s it,” and we die. It may be that illness has been kept at bay through our industry and now given an empty playing field, so to speak, it takes over; or it may be that we do things that are more dangerous (the study mentions driving more as one activity), or perhaps we working dogs just feel useless and our existence, pointless.<\/p>\n

Kim du Toit, “Working Dogs”, Splendid Isolation<\/em><\/a>, 2018-02-15.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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