{"id":53893,"date":"2020-01-01T05:00:18","date_gmt":"2020-01-01T10:00:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/?p=53893"},"modified":"2019-12-31T11:29:25","modified_gmt":"2019-12-31T16:29:25","slug":"dim-views-of-polyamory","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/2020\/01\/01\/dim-views-of-polyamory\/","title":{"rendered":"Dim views of polyamory"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/clairlemon\/status\/1211766105384968192\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Claire Lehmann<\/a> responded to a Tweet from <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/shamshi_adad\/status\/1211754313053278208\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@shamshi_adad<\/a> on the topic of polyamory:<\/p>\n<div align=\"center\">\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">With spreadsheets <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/vlJqICLWUj\">https:\/\/t.co\/vlJqICLWUj<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Claire Lehmann (@clairlemon) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/clairlemon\/status\/1211766105384968192?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">December 30, 2019<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>&#8230; which got some amusing responses:<\/p>\n<div align=\"center\">\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-conversation=\"none\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Polyamory is the \u201cparents aren\u2019t home let\u2019s eat all the candy\u201d of sex.<\/p>\n<p>A phase whose unwisdom will be soon understood.<\/p>\n<p>&mdash; \ud83e\udd16\ud83e\udd89Cyberowl \ud83e\udd89\ud83e\udd16 (@Supreme_Owl_FTW) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Supreme_Owl_FTW\/status\/1211766893939494912?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">December 30, 2019<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n<\/div>\n<div align=\"center\">\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-conversation=\"none\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">It&#39;s true.  I had a poly friend once. The rules were Talmudic. I didn&#39;t understand how that was freeing. But she beat me over the head with her dog-eared copy of &quot;Sex at Dawn&quot; and assured me it was.<\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Stephen Wood (@SlideQuintus) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SlideQuintus\/status\/1211767656618979328?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">December 30, 2019<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n<\/div>\n<div align=\"center\">\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-conversation=\"none\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Polygyny: Just harem girls sharing an alpha.<\/p>\n<p>Polyandry: Only 1 guy is getting laid, the rest are just there as utilities and servants.<\/p>\n<p>Neither arrangement is a good deal for anyone except that one dude who&#39;s getting laid.<\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Irreverant (@XTheIrreverantX) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/XTheIrreverantX\/status\/1211767946953007106?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">December 30, 2019<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Claire-Lehmann-polyamory-tweet.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Claire-Lehmann-polyamory-tweet-480x287.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"480\" height=\"287\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-53895\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Claire-Lehmann-polyamory-tweet-480x287.png 480w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Claire-Lehmann-polyamory-tweet-150x90.png 150w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Claire-Lehmann-polyamory-tweet.png 650w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 100vw, 480px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Claire Lehmann responded to a Tweet from @shamshi_adad on the topic of polyamory: With spreadsheets https:\/\/t.co\/vlJqICLWUj &mdash; Claire Lehmann (@clairlemon) December 30, 2019 &#8230; which got some amusing responses: Polyamory is the \u201cparents aren\u2019t home let\u2019s eat all the candy\u201d of sex. 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