{"id":43417,"date":"2020-08-07T01:00:59","date_gmt":"2020-08-07T05:00:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/?p=43417"},"modified":"2020-08-06T09:29:01","modified_gmt":"2020-08-06T13:29:01","slug":"qotd-celibacy-and-chastity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/2020\/08\/07\/qotd-celibacy-and-chastity\/","title":{"rendered":"QotD: Celibacy and chastity"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><a href=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/QotD-thumbnail-400x400.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:left; padding: 0px 15px 0px 0px\" src=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/QotD-thumbnail-400x400.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"400\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-48672\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/QotD-thumbnail-400x400.png 400w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/QotD-thumbnail-400x400-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/QotD-thumbnail-400x400-50x50.png 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a>Despite the common misunderstanding of the word, &#8220;celibate&#8221; does not refer to someone who abstains from sex. &#8220;Celibate&#8221; refers to someone who forgoes <em>marriage<\/em> \u2014 the part about not having sex is implied, at least in the Christian world, give or take an Alexander VI or two. &#8220;Chaste,&#8221; at the same time, doesn&#8217;t quite mean what people think it does: It refers principally to the abstention from extramarital sex, which in the case of the celibate means abstention from sex categorically. But chastity is part of marriage, too, describing a reverent attitude toward sex. In the Christian view (which is to say, in the view of Western civilization until ten minutes ago), the procreative act is the means by which men and women in union with one another participate in God&#8217;s creative work. &#8220;Chastity&#8221; means a lot more than mere abstinence. Chastity isn&#8217;t some kind of genital veganism.  <\/p>\n<p>There has been some pretty elevated stuff written on that subject, and if you want to take that particular high road, then Professor Robert George of Princeton is your guy. But consider the low road, too. There&#8217;s another conclusion, maybe a little bit cynical, that could be drawn from this: If you are a sexually frustrated young man, the smart play would be to join a church.<\/p>\n<p>Kevin D. Williamson, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nationalreview.com\/magazine\/2018\/05\/28\/incel-advice-start-going-to-church\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;Advice for Incels&#8221;, <em>National Review<\/em><\/a>, 2018-05-10.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Despite the common misunderstanding of the word, &#8220;celibate&#8221; does not refer to someone who abstains from sex. &#8220;Celibate&#8221; refers to someone who forgoes marriage \u2014 the part about not having sex is implied, at least in the Christian world, give or take an Alexander VI or two. &#8220;Chaste,&#8221; at the same time, doesn&#8217;t quite mean [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":35193,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,41,11],"tags":[360,262,400,1086,255],"class_list":["post-43417","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-history","category-quotations","category-religion","tag-christianity","tag-culture","tag-language","tag-marriage","tag-sexuality"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/favicon.png","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2hpV6-bih","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43417","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43417"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43417\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":59347,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43417\/revisions\/59347"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35193"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43417"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43417"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43417"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}