{"id":38571,"date":"2019-06-27T01:00:34","date_gmt":"2019-06-27T05:00:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/?p=38571"},"modified":"2019-06-26T08:38:39","modified_gmt":"2019-06-26T12:38:39","slug":"qotd-misandropologies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/2019\/06\/27\/qotd-misandropologies\/","title":{"rendered":"QotD: &#8220;Misandropologies&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><a href=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/QotD-thumbnail-400x400.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:left; padding: 0px 10px 0px 0px\" src=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/QotD-thumbnail-400x400.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"400\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-48672\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/QotD-thumbnail-400x400.png 400w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/QotD-thumbnail-400x400-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/QotD-thumbnail-400x400-50x50.png 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a>&#8230; in the same manner that many white people who initially signed on to the whole &#8220;don&#8217;t be a racist&#8221; program because it seemed fair were eventually alienated by the escalating rhetoric of &#8220;justice won&#8217;t be achieved until the last evil melanoma-prone ice devil baby is smashed dead against a rock,&#8221; many men \u2014 and even women \u2014 who had no problem with ideas such as equal pay and female suffrage started to get grossly turned off by rhetoric and policies that viewed being born male as an original sin that demanded eternal punishment.<\/p>\n<p>Even though black women live longer than white men in the USA &#8230; and even though women control more disposable wealth than men do &#8230; and even though women are snagging most of the college degrees these days &#8230; and even though the law and public sympathy heavily lean toward women in any dispute between the sexes &#8230; and even though the media portray men as either bumbling incompetents or bloodthirsty rape-monsters &#8230; and even though men are far more likely to commit suicide, die on the job, or be homeless than women &#8230; we&#8217;re still lectured by these bitter fat blobs and their testosterone-free male enablers that misandry isn&#8217;t real because men still benefit from certain mysterious &#8220;systemic&#8221; and &#8220;institutional&#8221; advantages that none of these assholes seem able to enumerate even when calmly asked to do so.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a funny sort of &#8220;patriarchy&#8221; we inhabit.<\/p>\n<p>\u2028To allege that women are capable of malice and violence and deception is only to allege that they&#8217;re human. To expect anything less of them would be dehumanizing and patronizing \u2014 which, ironically, shares a root word with &#8220;patriarchy.&#8221; When feminism ditched the &#8220;equity&#8221; rhetoric in favor of a menses-splattered pagan goddess religion that depicts men as irredeemable worker drones and women as innocent angels, men who weren&#8217;t entirely asleep or pussy-whipped realized that the rules had changed and that they were under attack. But even to notice that a lot of women openly exult in hating men gets you labeled a &#8220;woman-hater.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Misandry is real, and those who seek to deny or justify it deserve a stern paddling. And even if you acknowledge that it&#8217;s real, don&#8217;t try to make excuses for it using some postmodern gobbledygook, because then you become a misandry apologist \u2014 a misandropologist. Just admit that women can be every bit as mean, nasty, horrid, foul, vile, shitty, and hateful as men. It&#8217;s part of the human condition.<\/p>\n<p>Na\u00efve as it may be, I envision an enlightened future where there is no longer any misogyny or misandry \u2014 only a beautiful, sweet, shared sense of misanthropy.<\/p>\n<p>Jim Goad, <a href=\"http:\/\/takimag.com\/article\/confronting_the_misandropologists_jim_goad\/print#ixzz4hFfcksrc\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;Confronting the Misandropologists&#8221;, <em>Taki&#8217;s Magazine<\/em><\/a>, 2017-05-08.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230; in the same manner that many white people who initially signed on to the whole &#8220;don&#8217;t be a racist&#8221; program because it seemed fair were eventually alienated by the escalating rhetoric of &#8220;justice won&#8217;t be achieved until the last evil melanoma-prone ice devil baby is smashed dead against a rock,&#8221; many men \u2014 and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":35193,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[53,41,13],"tags":[198,987,99,997,43],"class_list":["post-38571","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-politics","category-quotations","category-usa","tag-equalrights","tag-feminism","tag-racism","tag-socialjustice","tag-women"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/favicon.png","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2hpV6-a27","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38571","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38571"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38571\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":49247,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38571\/revisions\/49247"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35193"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38571"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38571"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38571"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}