{"id":34506,"date":"2017-11-20T01:00:10","date_gmt":"2017-11-20T06:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/?p=34506"},"modified":"2017-11-09T09:04:45","modified_gmt":"2017-11-09T14:04:45","slug":"qotd-the-surprise-of-motherhood-to-high-achieving-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/2017\/11\/20\/qotd-the-surprise-of-motherhood-to-high-achieving-women\/","title":{"rendered":"QotD: The surprise of motherhood to high-achieving women"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>Motherhood surprises women these days. Not the fact of motherhood. Many women meticulously plan their pregnancies. Certainly, women of advanced education plan childbearing, <a href=\"http:\/\/articles.chicagotribune.com\/2014-03-07\/features\/chi-the-big-lie-tanya-selvaratnam-20140307_1_the-big-lie-printers-row-journal-biological-clock\" target=\"_blank\">occasionally to a fault<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>The fact of motherhood does not shock, but the day-to-day of motherhood and the intensity of motherhood do. As a culture we condition women to believe that having a baby is just a biological function and they will go back to their previous lives, albeit with babes in tow, after a few weeks of recovery.<\/p>\n<p>[Insert gentle, hysterical, or bitter laughter from experienced moms here.]<\/p>\n<p>Trained to be doctors and lawyers and such, today\u2019s young educated women did not typically care for babies when they were growing up. College bound, they had better things to do than babysit babies and their mothers had visions of them doing \u201cmore\u201d and wouldn\u2019t dream of expecting their child to care for other children. Even now, many of the mothers I know \u2014 I&#8217;m in the highly educated and metropolitan set \u2014 think that expecting older siblings to care for younger ones is some combination of dangerous and unfair. And watching a young girl play with babies is almost pitiable.<\/p>\n<p>In this domestic discouragement, we lay the foundation for the common motherhood shock. Unaware of even what should be the <em>known<\/em> knowns of motherhood, newly expecting moms tend to read books about pregnancy and childbirth. It is presently happening to their bodies and book learning comes easily to the modern woman. It&#8217;s how we made all those good grades and have out-enrolled men in higher education, after all.<\/p>\n<p>Leslie Loftis, <a href=\"https:\/\/pjmedia.com\/parenting\/2016\/03\/31\/highly-educated-high-achieving-women-find-theyre-not-prepared-for-motherhood\/\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;High-Achieving Women Find They&#8217;re Not Prepared for Motherhood&#8221;, <em>PJ Media<\/em><\/a>, 2016-03-31.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Motherhood surprises women these days. Not the fact of motherhood. Many women meticulously plan their pregnancies. Certainly, women of advanced education plan childbearing, occasionally to a fault. The fact of motherhood does not shock, but the day-to-day of motherhood and the intensity of motherhood do. As a culture we condition women to believe that having [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":35193,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[66,41],"tags":[95,375,43],"class_list":["post-34506","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-health-science","category-quotations","tag-jobs","tag-parents","tag-women"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/favicon.png","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2hpV6-8Yy","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34506","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34506"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34506\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":34508,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34506\/revisions\/34508"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35193"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34506"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34506"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34506"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}