{"id":30767,"date":"2015-03-25T03:00:22","date_gmt":"2015-03-25T07:00:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/?p=30767"},"modified":"2015-03-23T14:53:35","modified_gmt":"2015-03-23T18:53:35","slug":"the-juggling-act-of-mothers-in-the-workforce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/2015\/03\/25\/the-juggling-act-of-mothers-in-the-workforce\/","title":{"rendered":"The juggling act of mothers in the workforce"},"content":{"rendered":"

In The Federalist<\/em>, Nichole Russell<\/a> agrees that it is nearly impossible to “have it all” (a real career and a family) … at the same time, anyway:<\/p>\n

The conversation about mothers in the workforce seems to be at once continuous and clamoring. Rarely does a working mother nail the problem and solution without sounding too whiny or too arrogant. Yet a recent commentary in Forbes<\/em> comes as close to any as I have seen recently, complete with some eyebrow-raising admissions. If more men and women \u2014 parents and CEOs \u2014 viewed this exhausting issue with such clarity, perhaps we could finally work towards a solution.<\/p>\n

In the piece, succinctly titled, \u201cFemale Company President: I\u2019m sorry to all the mothers I worked with,\u201d Katharine Zaleski recounts how, while employed in high-powered editorial positions at The Washington Post<\/em> and The Huffington Post<\/em>, she regularly scoffed at the work ethic of other women just because they were mothers, either mentally or by failing to support the decisions they made related to work and family.<\/p>\n

She reveals this penitent anecdote: \u201cI secretly rolled my eyes at a mother who couldn\u2019t make it to last minute drinks with me and my team. I questioned her \u2018commitment\u2019 even though she arrived two hours earlier to work than me and my hungover colleagues the next day.\u201d<\/p>\n

What\u2019s just as surprising as her admission that she evaluated a mother\u2019s work-related achievements on a different scale than she did other employees is the equally important truth that the workforce isn\u2019t just a tough place for moms because of their male bosses. \u201cFor mothers in the workplace, it\u2019s death by a thousand cuts \u2013 and sometimes it\u2019s other women holding the knives. I didn\u2019t realize this \u2013 or how horrible I\u2019d been \u2013 until five years later, when I gave birth to a daughter of my own.\u201d<\/p>\n

Zaleski goes on to discuss how she lamented her status as a new mom and employee only briefly before she determined to find a solution, both for her daughter so she wouldn\u2019t feel \u201ctrapped\u201d and other moms facing the same struggle. She wound up co-founding a startup called PowertoFly that matches women in technical positions they can do from home.<\/p>\n

While many conservatives and liberals alike might call this an abandonment of the feminist theory, I think it actually expresses the heart of feminism \u2014 not radical left-wing feminism, but one of the few Oprah gems I agree with: \u201cYou can have it all, just not at the same time.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

In The Federalist, Nichole Russell agrees that it is nearly impossible to “have it all” (a real career and a family) … at the same time, anyway: The conversation about mothers in the workforce seems to be at once continuous and clamoring. Rarely does a working mother nail the problem and solution without sounding too […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[831,13],"tags":[968,95,261,43],"class_list":["post-30767","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-business","category-usa","tag-family","tag-jobs","tag-management","tag-women"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2hpV6-80f","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30767","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30767"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30767\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":30768,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30767\/revisions\/30768"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30767"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30767"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30767"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}