{"id":28767,"date":"2014-11-20T00:02:56","date_gmt":"2014-11-20T05:02:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/?p=28767"},"modified":"2014-11-19T07:48:54","modified_gmt":"2014-11-19T12:48:54","slug":"are-you-as-smart-as-a-neanderthal-parent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/2014\/11\/20\/are-you-as-smart-as-a-neanderthal-parent\/","title":{"rendered":"Are you as smart as a Neanderthal parent?"},"content":{"rendered":"

In The Federalist<\/em>, Rachel Lu<\/a> says that Neanderthals were better at parenting than modern humans:<\/p>\n

Is it just me, or has the world gone completely crazy when it comes to childrearing?<\/p>\n

You know what I\u2019m talking about. Once upon a time, people expected to get married in early adulthood and have kids at reasonable intervals. Parents stayed married and paid the bills, while kids played in front yards and freely opened sidewalk lemonade stands. Children fit naturally into the rhythm of American life.<\/p>\n

Nowadays, we treat children like a deathly plague, unless of course you\u2019ve decided you want one. Then they become a luxury good worth tens or even hundreds of thousands. Once acquired, they must be treated like prize poodles, feted and protected at every turn.<\/p>\n

The traditional family model has largely been put through the shredder, much to the detriment of children<\/a>. We try to make up for this by hovering over our kids every second, and sending the police<\/a> after parents who still think it\u2019s fine to take their grandparents\u2019 more laid-back, \u201clet the kids play\u201d approach.<\/p>\n

In other words, our ideas about family are a huge, hairy mess. It\u2019s strange we would have so much trouble figuring out a thing that\u2019s been done since Neanderthal times. Then again, maybe that\u2019s the real problem. Unlike Neanderthals, we\u2019re obsessed with figuring out how to do this<\/em>. We\u2019ve fought tooth and nail to free ourselves from the natural implications of our biology and, as a reward, we now have to plan<\/em> every detail of family formation. There\u2019s no taking comfort in \u201cthe done thing\u201d anymore. Parenthood today is all about doing it right<\/em>. <\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

In The Federalist, Rachel Lu says that Neanderthals were better at parenting than modern humans: Is it just me, or has the world gone completely crazy when it comes to childrearing? You know what I\u2019m talking about. Once upon a time, people expected to get married in early adulthood and have kids at reasonable intervals. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[73],"tags":[374,968,322,375],"class_list":["post-28767","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-randomness","tag-children","tag-family","tag-nannystate","tag-parents"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2hpV6-7tZ","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28767","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28767"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28767\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28768,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28767\/revisions\/28768"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28767"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28767"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28767"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}