{"id":24164,"date":"2014-02-06T07:56:18","date_gmt":"2014-02-06T12:56:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/?p=24164"},"modified":"2014-02-06T07:56:18","modified_gmt":"2014-02-06T12:56:18","slug":"hed-have-gotten-away-with-it-except-for-those-pesky-girls","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/2014\/02\/06\/hed-have-gotten-away-with-it-except-for-those-pesky-girls\/","title":{"rendered":"He&#8217;d have gotten away with it, except for those pesky girls"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Being shy can be a handicap for certain kinds of activities. It can prevent you from doing things you might otherwise want to do. Shockingly, however, the Ontario Human Rights Tribunal doesn&#8217;t think that you should get special treatment just because you&#8217;re <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thestar.com\/yourtoronto\/education\/2014\/02\/05\/u_of_t_student_loses_bid_to_avoid_class_with_women_because_hes_shy.html\" target=\"_blank\">afraid to be the only guy in a class full of women<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Sexual politics have erupted again in Toronto\u2019s ivory tower as another male student has lost a bid to be excused from a class with women without losing marks, this time because he\u2019s shy.<\/p>\n<p>The Ontario Human Rights Tribunal has dismissed a complaint by University of Toronto student Wongene Daniel Kim, who accused his professor of discriminating against him as a male when she docked him marks for not coming to class because he was too shy to be the only guy.<\/p>\n<p>The second-year health science major arrived at the opening of a Women and Gender Studies course for which he had signed up in the fall of 2012 \u2014 \u201cIt had spaces left and fit into my timetable\u201d \u2014 only to discover a room full of women and nary a man in sight.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI felt anxiety; I didn\u2019t expect it would be all women and it was a small classroom and about 40 women were sort of sitting in a semicircle and the thought of spending two hours every week sitting there for the next four months was overwhelming,\u201d said Kim, 20, adding he manages a part-time job with women because there are also other men. <\/p>\n<p>[&#8230;]<\/p>\n<p>However the tribunal ruled his complaint did not warrant a hearing.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe applicant has not satisfied me that his claimed discomfort in a classroom of women requires accommodation under the (Ontario Human Rights) Code,\u201d <a href=\"http:\/\/canlii.ca\/en\/on\/onhrt\/doc\/2014\/2014hrto76\/2014hrto76.html?searchUrlHash=AAAAAQAHd29uZ2VuZQAAAAAB\" target=\"_blank\">wrote adjudicator Mary Truemner<\/a>. \u201cHe admitted that his discomfort is based on his own \u2018individual preference\u2019 as a shy person &#8230; and stated he thought they (the women) would not be willing to interact with him because of his gender.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This was \u201cmerely speculation as he never gave the class, or the women, a chance,\u201d wrote Truemner, vice-chair of the tribunal.<\/p>\n<p>Kim had no evidence of being \u201cexcluded, disadvantaged or treated unequally on the basis of\u201d his gender, she said. <\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>H\/T to Joey DeVilla who posted on <em>Facebook<\/em>, &#8220;Way to perpetuate the feckless Asian nerd stereotype, Kim. After all the work I did dispelling it!&#8221;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Being shy can be a handicap for certain kinds of activities. It can prevent you from doing things you might otherwise want to do. Shockingly, however, the Ontario Human Rights Tribunal doesn&#8217;t think that you should get special treatment just because you&#8217;re afraid to be the only guy in a class full of women: Sexual [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,73],"tags":[46,87,303,764,43],"class_list":["post-24164","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-cancon","category-randomness","tag-hrcs","tag-ontario","tag-sexism","tag-university","tag-women"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2hpV6-6hK","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24164","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24164"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24164\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24165,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24164\/revisions\/24165"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24164"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24164"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24164"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}