{"id":23346,"date":"2013-12-16T09:27:09","date_gmt":"2013-12-16T14:27:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/?p=23346"},"modified":"2018-11-19T15:17:44","modified_gmt":"2018-11-19T20:17:44","slug":"it-was-thirty-years-ago-today","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/2013\/12\/16\/it-was-thirty-years-ago-today\/","title":{"rendered":"It was thirty years ago today"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/File:York_County_Court_House.JPG\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/York-County-Court-House.jpg\" alt=\"York County Court House\" width=\"320\" height=\"206\" style=\"padding:5px;\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-23349\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/York-County-Court-House.jpg 320w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/York-County-Court-House-150x96.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/a>Elizabeth and I got married in Toronto on this date in 1983. It was a bit of a race to get to the <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Toronto_Courthouse\" target=\"_blank\">courthouse<\/a> on time &mdash; my so-called best man decided that he had to go <a href=\"https:\/\/maps.google.com\/maps?saddr=Cambridge+Avenue,+Toronto,+ON,+Canada&#038;daddr=Cliff+Road,+Mississauga,+ON,+Canada&#038;hl=en&#038;ll=43.63036,-79.483337&#038;spn=0.168731,0.296631&#038;sll=43.631945,-79.474454&#038;sspn=0.168726,0.296631&#038;geocode=FVZ7mgIdcBFF-ymhciS6oczUiTGLITixTTmhaQ%3BFQgCmQIdXWVB-ymhrc6DVEYriDFLr4Ev8l6Gwg&#038;oq=Cliff+Road&#038;t=h&#038;dirflg=r&#038;ttype=now&#038;noexp=0&#038;noal=0&#038;sort=def&#038;mra=ltm&#038;z=12&#038;start=0\" target=\"_blank\">back to Mississauga<\/a> &#8220;for a shower&#8221; that morning, and was quite late getting back into Toronto. Trying to get a cab to hurry in downtown Toronto traffic was a waste of effort, so I very nearly missed my own wedding. Elizabeth was not pleased with me holding up the show (even though I could rightfully claim it wasn&#8217;t my fault). The rest of the day is rather a blur to me now.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/File:Niagara_on_the_Lake_prince_of_wales.JPG\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Prince-of-Wales-hotel-in-Niagara-on-the-Lake.jpg\" alt=\"Prince of Wales hotel in Niagara-on-the-Lake\" width=\"320\" height=\"180\" style=\"padding:5px;\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-23350\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Prince-of-Wales-hotel-in-Niagara-on-the-Lake.jpg 320w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Prince-of-Wales-hotel-in-Niagara-on-the-Lake-150x84.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/a>We had the reception that evening at a lovely house in the <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Playter_Estates\" target=\"_blank\">Playter Estates<\/a> (during which my father tried to pick a fight with Elizabeth&#8217;s uncle), and then set off for our very brief honeymoon in <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Niagara-on-the-Lake,_Ontario\" target=\"_blank\">Niagara-on-the-Lake<\/a> the next day. We could only afford two nights at the <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Prince_of_Wales_Hotel,_Niagara-on-the-Lake\" target=\"_blank\">Prince of Wales hotel<\/a>, and because we got married on Saturday, we were in NOTL for Sunday and Monday nights. Back in 1983, Ontario still had fairly restrictive <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Sunday_shopping#Ontario\" target=\"_blank\">Sunday closing laws<\/a>, so there was very little to do &mdash; almost everything was closed. (And that was probably for the best, as we had almost no money to spend anyway&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.panoramio.com\/photo\/25891255http:\/\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Chateau-des-Charmes.jpg\" alt=\"Chateau des Charmes\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" style=\"padding:5px;\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-23351\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Chateau-des-Charmes.jpg 300w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Chateau-des-Charmes-150x112.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>One of the few businesses we found open in the area was the original <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fromtheboscfamily.com\/chateau-des-charmes\" target=\"_blank\">Chateau des Charmes estate winery<\/a> (not the huge, imposing facility of today: a small industrial-looking building a few kilometres away), where the only person on duty was <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fromtheboscfamily.com\/meet-our-family\" target=\"_blank\">Mme Andr\u00e9e Bosc<\/a> who gave us an exhaustive tasting experience and showed us around the winery. Neither of us were experienced wine drinkers, so this was wonderful for both of us. I&#8217;d love to say that we started our wine cellar that day, but that would only be partially true: we bought about a dozen bottles of various Chateau des Charmes wines, but we couldn&#8217;t afford to restock after those had been opened. We visited the winery every year on our anniversary for about a decade, until we got out of the habit of going back to NOTL (which was around the time our son was born). <\/p>\n<p>After our brief honeymoon, we both had to go back to our jobs. Very shortly after that, my employer (the almost-unknown-to-Google <a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.ca\/search?q=mr.+gameways+ark+toronto&#038;ie=utf-8&#038;oe=utf-8&#038;rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&#038;client=firefox-a&#038;gws_rd=cr&#038;ei=TAOvUofqIZDg2wXlnIC4CQ\" target=\"_blank\">Mr Gameway&#8217;s Ark<\/a>) went bankrupt, which was financially bad timing for us, having just spent most of our tiny cash hoard on our honeymoon.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Elizabeth and I got married in Toronto on this date in 1983. It was a bit of a race to get to the courthouse on time &mdash; my so-called best man decided that he had to go back to Mississauga &#8220;for a shower&#8221; that morning, and was quite late getting back into Toronto. 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