{"id":105308,"date":"2026-10-13T04:00:59","date_gmt":"2026-10-13T08:00:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/?p=105308"},"modified":"2026-10-12T16:24:11","modified_gmt":"2026-10-12T20:24:11","slug":"the-un-coupling-of-gen-z","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/the-un-coupling-of-gen-z\/","title":{"rendered":"The Un-Coupling of Gen Z"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>One of the most obvious demographic shifts in recent years has been the ongoing decline in the birth rate in pretty much the entire western world. But it isn&#8217;t surprising in one respect: Gen Z people aren&#8217;t <a href=\"https:\/\/www.derekthompson.org\/p\/are-men-the-problem\" target=\"_blank\">forming relationships<\/a> at the rate of earlier generations and have fewer (if any) sexual partners:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Why are so many Americans not getting married \u2014 or not even dating, in the first place?<\/p>\n<p>The share of 40-year-olds who have never been hitched has <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/ideas\/archive\/2023\/08\/does-marriage-make-you-happier\/675145\/\" target=\"_blank\">quadrupled<\/a> since 1980, as Americans get married later, or not at all.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Share-of-women-and-men-married-by-selected-ages-and-birth-cohord.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Share-of-women-and-men-married-by-selected-ages-and-birth-cohord-853x606.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"853\" height=\"606\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-105309\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Share-of-women-and-men-married-by-selected-ages-and-birth-cohord-853x606.png 853w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Share-of-women-and-men-married-by-selected-ages-and-birth-cohord-480x341.png 480w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Share-of-women-and-men-married-by-selected-ages-and-birth-cohord-150x107.png 150w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Share-of-women-and-men-married-by-selected-ages-and-birth-cohord-768x546.png 768w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Share-of-women-and-men-married-by-selected-ages-and-birth-cohord.png 908w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 853px) 100vw, 853px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not just marriage that&#8217;s declining but rather all forms of cohabitation. An analysis by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ft.com\/content\/43e2b4f6-5ab7-4c47-b9fd-d611c36dad74?syn-25a6b1a6=1\" target=\"_blank\">John Burn-Murdoch<\/a> found that &#8220;coupling&#8221; has declined steadily in both the UK and the U.S., especially for those without a college degree. The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.npr.org\/2026\/08\/23\/nx-s1-5938103\/have-dating-apps-lost-their-luster-data-shows-a-decline-in-users\" target=\"_blank\">declining popularity of dating apps<\/a> suggests that these trends are likely to continue.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Decline-of-coupling-steepest-among-people-without-a-degree.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Decline-of-coupling-steepest-among-people-without-a-degree.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"529\" height=\"425\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105310\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Decline-of-coupling-steepest-among-people-without-a-degree.png 529w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Decline-of-coupling-steepest-among-people-without-a-degree-480x386.png 480w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Decline-of-coupling-steepest-among-people-without-a-degree-150x121.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 529px) 100vw, 529px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I care about the decline of coupling and marriage not because I consider myself a strict evangelist of matrimony \u2014 I think people should do what they can to enjoy themselves without hurting others \u2014 but rather because I think it bears on two of the most important questions about the future: (1) How many people exist, and (2) how happy are they? The relationship between romance and births is practically linear. Since 1990, Burn-Murdoch has shown, the decline of births traces the decline of relationship formation across many countries. Fewer relationships mean fewer people, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.derekthompson.org\/p\/why-the-whole-world-stopped-having\" target=\"_blank\">accelerating population declines<\/a> around the world are, somewhat like climate change, a slowly accumulating phenomenon that will almost certainly shape the future of economics, technology, and the texture of human existence. <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Birth-rates-trace-the-decline-in-relationship-formation.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Birth-rates-trace-the-decline-in-relationship-formation-853x598.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"853\" height=\"598\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-105311\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Birth-rates-trace-the-decline-in-relationship-formation-853x598.png 853w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Birth-rates-trace-the-decline-in-relationship-formation-480x337.png 480w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Birth-rates-trace-the-decline-in-relationship-formation-150x105.png 150w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Birth-rates-trace-the-decline-in-relationship-formation-768x539.png 768w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Birth-rates-trace-the-decline-in-relationship-formation.png 1434w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 853px) 100vw, 853px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Then, there&#8217;s the mushy yet momentous question of whether people actually enjoy their existence. Self-reported happiness is declining in the west, and particularly in the U.S. Reviewing several decades of General Social Survey data, the economist <a href=\"https:\/\/papers.ssrn.com\/sol3\/papers.cfm?abstract_id=4508123\" target=\"_blank\">Sam Peltzman<\/a> came to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/ideas\/archive\/2023\/08\/does-marriage-make-you-happier\/675145\/\" target=\"_blank\">conclusion<\/a> that &#8220;most of the overall downturn [in life satisfaction] is attributable to decline in marriage post-2000&#8221;. Reviewing Peltzman&#8217;s work, <em>The Atlantic<\/em>&#8216;s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/ideas\/archive\/2023\/08\/does-marriage-make-you-happier\/675145\/\" target=\"_blank\">Olga Khazan<\/a> provided some useful context:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<p><em>One paper alone might be easy enough to dismiss, but this is a fairly consistent finding dating back decades in social-science research: Married people are happier. Period.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If the decline of coupling is upstream of both falling births and falling happiness, then the most important question is what&#8217;s happening at the source. In his new book <em>Generation Uncoupled<\/em>, Daniel Cox, a public opinion researcher and director of the Survey Center on American Life, considers a range of causes that span technology, culture, media, economics, and politics.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the most obvious demographic shifts in recent years has been the ongoing decline in the birth rate in pretty much the entire western world. But it isn&#8217;t surprising in one respect: Gen Z people aren&#8217;t forming relationships at the rate of earlier generations and have fewer (if any) sexual partners: Why are so [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[4,66,13],"tags":[262,319,1106,1086],"class_list":["post-105308","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-britain","category-health-science","category-usa","tag-culture","tag-demographics","tag-genz","tag-marriage"],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2hpV6-row","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105308","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=105308"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105308\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":105312,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105308\/revisions\/105312"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=105308"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=105308"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=105308"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}