{"id":100259,"date":"2026-01-11T05:00:41","date_gmt":"2026-01-11T10:00:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/?p=100259"},"modified":"2026-01-11T11:50:02","modified_gmt":"2026-01-11T16:50:02","slug":"the-paradox-of-indifference","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/2026\/01\/11\/the-paradox-of-indifference\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;The Paradox of Indifference&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.anarchonomicon.com\/p\/cry-havoc-and-bray-for-blood\" target=\"_blank\">Kulak<\/a> describes the experiences of crafting takes for the gaping maw of social media and getting &#8230; nothing. You might as well not have bothered &mdash; we all know how that works, don&#8217;t we? But sometimes you catch lightning in a bottle and your post goes viral and then you get the worst kind of feedback:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>People don&#8217;t show up to comment &#8220;No one gets it&#8221;, &#8220;Another miss&#8221;, &#8220;You aren&#8217;t funny&#8221;, &#8220;You&#8217;re wasting your life on Twitter&#8221; [as they tweet at you], &#8220;No one loves you&#8221;, &#8220;You never get laid&#8221;, &#8220;you&#8217;re a whore&#8221;, &#8220;you know nothing about BDSM Romance in Desert Storm, nor how that relates to the Czech Surrealism&#8221;, &#8220;No one cares&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>When you are actually wasting your time and getting no traction, Not a soul alive is going waste their own time EVEN MORE-SO to sit there and commentate your embarrassment and failure.<\/p>\n<p>Think about it, No matter how much Jehovah&#8217;s Witnesses or street preachers are wasting their lives and no one is listening, you&#8217;d be wasting your life even more so to sit there trying to persuade them of that fact. <\/p>\n<p>Indeed the ONLY times you&#8217;ll EVER get comments like these &#8230; Is when you ARE getting traction.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s really amazing! Countless times you&#8217;ll tweet or post something you thought was clever, insightful, drole, important, philosophically or spiritually relevant &#8230; And nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Then one of them Moon-Shoots, takes off to 6, 8, 10 MILLION impressions, 10s of thousands of likes &#8230;, thousands of retweets &#8230; And suddenly THAT ONE you start getting &#8220;No one cares&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve seen THOUSANDS of comments, &#8220;No one cares&#8221; &#8220;you&#8217;re weird for caring&#8221; all on the same tweet, RETWEETS from accounts with a MILLION followers &#8220;Who cares what this person thinks!? No one&#8217;s listening to them&#8221; They tweet out to a million people.<\/p>\n<p>YOU DO!<\/p>\n<p>Otherwise you would have just kept scrolling. <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Appeal-to-triviality.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Appeal-to-triviality.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"675\" height=\"680\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-100260\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Appeal-to-triviality.jpg 675w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Appeal-to-triviality-480x484.jpg 480w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Appeal-to-triviality-635x640.jpg 635w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Appeal-to-triviality-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Appeal-to-triviality-120x120.jpg 120w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Appeal-to-triviality-50x50.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 675px) 100vw, 675px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Its actually really remarkable the amount of effort, collective work, and social organization that goes into this.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve seen Tweets with THOUSANDS OF COMMENTS, getting hundreds of retweets and hundreds of comments that &#8220;No one cares&#8221; &#8230; Sometimes these retweets themselves get comments and conversations going in circles &#8220;These people really think we care what they think?&#8221;, &#8220;I know right? They&#8217;re obsessed with us, as if we care&#8221; and if you&#8217;re looking closely you can actually see various followers of the people who &#8220;don&#8217;t care&#8221;, Comment themselves that they &#8220;don&#8217;t care&#8221; beneath their favorite E-Celebrity &#8220;not caring&#8221; that they also &#8220;don&#8217;t care&#8221;, and then follow their way back to your original tweet to say &#8220;We don&#8217;t care&#8221;, before Retweeting you themselves to say &#8220;God, these people. They actually think we care!?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Indeed there&#8217;s an entire MEME FORMAT \u2014 the only meme as far as I can tell the left has ever successfully created for themselves \u2014 That exists solely to express that they &#8220;don&#8217;t care&#8221;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_100261\" style=\"width: 511px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Meme-Giant-thumb-guy.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-100261\" src=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Meme-Giant-thumb-guy.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"501\" height=\"583\" class=\"size-full wp-image-100261\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Meme-Giant-thumb-guy.jpg 501w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Meme-Giant-thumb-guy-480x559.jpg 480w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Meme-Giant-thumb-guy-129x150.jpg 129w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 501px) 100vw, 501px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-100261\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">\u201cGiant Thumb Guy\u201d, Look at us Cool people in our group collective, and you outside it, and how we just barely acknowledge you then go back to ignoring you.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>You see you can tell it&#8217;s a leftist meme format because they didn&#8217;t use any wojaks or existing memes &#8230; Also it&#8217;s poorly constructed and uses a redundant three panel format that has been on its way out in memes since 2015.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve seen various leftists create elaborate Photoshops of this meme &#8230; Just to respond how little they care, because that&#8217;s what you do when don&#8217;t care.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_100262\" style=\"width: 494px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Can-you-tell-a-redditor-created-this.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-100262\" src=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Can-you-tell-a-redditor-created-this-484x640.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"484\" height=\"640\" class=\"size-large wp-image-100262\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Can-you-tell-a-redditor-created-this-484x640.jpg 484w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Can-you-tell-a-redditor-created-this-454x600.jpg 454w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Can-you-tell-a-redditor-created-this-113x150.jpg 113w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Can-you-tell-a-redditor-created-this-768x1015.jpg 768w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Can-you-tell-a-redditor-created-this.jpg 889w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 484px) 100vw, 484px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-100262\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Now admit it, Can you tell a redditor created this? Look at the alt-text that came embedded in the image. (No I don\u2019t actually know what Guilty Gear is\u2026but we\u2019ll be charitable and assume its just a fun and well enough written game and not barely concealed porn)<\/p><\/div>\n<p>And of course other times their innate violent impulses infect the meme:<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_100263\" style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Meme-Big-thumb-guy-killer.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-100263\" src=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Meme-Big-thumb-guy-killer.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"660\" class=\"size-full wp-image-100263\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Meme-Big-thumb-guy-killer.jpg 500w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Meme-Big-thumb-guy-killer-455x600.jpg 455w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Meme-Big-thumb-guy-killer-485x640.jpg 485w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Meme-Big-thumb-guy-killer-114x150.jpg 114w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-100263\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Because escalating immediately from words to threats of violence shows how cool and unconcerned you are.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>&#8220;But Kulak!?&#8221; I hear you say, in a bout of inner-Redditor cleverness, &#8220;You&#8217;re a hypocrite! You clearly care too! You&#8217;ve written this entire piece so far just going on about how you don&#8217;t care, about them not caring, about your thing that you did that they didn&#8217;t care about!!! Would you have done that if you don&#8217;t care?! A-Ha! We got you!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ugh &#8230; Of course I care. This is fascinating. My anthropological instincts are tickled to the core!<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_100264\" style=\"width: 858px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Simply-fascinating.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-100264\" src=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Simply-fascinating.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"848\" height=\"480\" class=\"size-full wp-image-100264\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Simply-fascinating.jpg 848w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Simply-fascinating-480x272.jpg 480w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Simply-fascinating-150x85.jpg 150w, https:\/\/quotulatiousness.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Simply-fascinating-768x435.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 848px) 100vw, 848px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-100264\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Simply fascinating.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>My working hypothesis is that leftists, a wide cross-section of women, effeminate men, the SSRI&#8217;d, men who&#8217;ve suffered genital trauma, the unintelligent, the weak willed, and just generally those of poor inner conviction, reason, hormonal health, and disagreeable virtue (but then I&#8217;ve repeated myself many times now) &#8230; Interpret their emotions and ideas via a complex communicative social environment they maintain with each-other.<\/p>\n<p>Their minds and reasoning depends on a group, or longhouse, or &#8220;Community&#8221;, or &#8220;friends&#8221; &#8230; whereas the superior Chad, Chadette, Chud, and Chudette western autists are able to forgo, for extended periods, any need for such a social mental framework or even forego such &#8220;friends&#8221; and &#8220;community&#8221; entirely.<\/p>\n<p>Thus, like the apex predators they are, these noble solitary creatures are able to rely upon their own superior reason and judgement. Inside of you are two wolves &#8230; and one of them is fallacious and gay, and the superior rational man should ignore him.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>It&#8217;s a long post and covers a <em>lot<\/em> of territory, so do <a href=\"https:\/\/www.anarchonomicon.com\/p\/cry-havoc-and-bray-for-blood\" target=\"_blank\">read the whole thing<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kulak describes the experiences of crafting takes for the gaping maw of social media and getting &#8230; nothing. You might as well not have bothered &mdash; we all know how that works, don&#8217;t we? 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